Hi, I just checked out my medium again. I'm gonna answer your questions. First of all, I did feel I was left behind when I was in the early 20s but I never let other people's luck or achievement as my standard of happiness and I focus on my realistic goals and what I know I'm capable also get to know my own values. Perhaps I can say I personally don't compare my journey with others as I believe that my turn will come for what is meant for me eventually. This is not easy for real. It took years to get used to this thought and stick on this way of thinking from time to time. :)